The Right Dating Etiquette

When Love is in the Air 

I feel it in my fingers~ I feel it in my toes

The love that's all around me ~and so the feeling grows!

This is the season of romance passion and expression. This is the time when cupid strikes. As this is the time when love is on the air!

The toughest part about any love story is expression. Mostly one feels nervous to speak his or her heart out or simply does not know the proper way to communicate. The basic rule of communication is applicable to Love too, i.e. both verbal and nonverbal modes. For few impressing others are inborn skill; whereas, their counterparts need to develop it through proper guidance. This is where the concept of Image Management had strolled in.

I, as an Image Consultant have come across many cases where a date got jeopardized for mere erroneous gestures and behavioral norms. Usually, when two people go on a date for the first time, they try to judge each-other’s characters, likes and dislikes, similarities as well as differences.

My guidance on dating etiquette is an ideal blend of gender specific as well as common to both men and women tips.

Suggestion for guys:

Remember, the possibilities of creating a positive or negative image starts pre-dating and continues till you drop her back home. For example, to show chivalry, man should always open the car door for his lady. This is one of the many ways women test your knowledge of simple courtesy. Avoid talking about something which fascinates you such as sports, cars, share market etc. Choose a cafeteria that suites your budget and ensure her ease factors.

A pointer for women:

Dress to impress, but do not overdress. Give him a fair chance to express and impress. Be considerate about what you order. Do not just pick up something which is overly priced. Subtly hint that you are willing to pay.

What both should keep in mind?

My primary emphasis is on how to dress up accurately as per their body shape, size and skin tone. Moreover, I too clarify people about right body language, eye contact and postures; that is needed to be followed while on a date.  

Be on time. Avoid boasting about yourself; as you might end up making yourself sound uninteresting and unrealistic. Skip topics that revolve around someone’s past or sensitive matters. To be a good speaker one has to be a good listener.  Be respectful for each other. Avoid checking your phone every five minutes to read messages or mails. Answer only when the call is important. Try to keep your cell phone on silent mode.

Above all, I would like to offer one piece of advice to all of you, “Just be yourself!” Pretending to be someone else will take you nowhere!